Further Proof Men Are Different From Women

August’s issue of GQ has an article on the 10 best war books of all time.  Think about that for a second….would Elle or InStyle or any woman-focused magazine ever have an article like that?  I’m guessing no. It would not occur to women, at least I don’t think it would, to take the time to compile a list to honor and rate war books.  I’m guessing most women readers would flip by the article without ever reading it. 

Sure, women’s magazine have lists of other things - things men might find frivolous or dumb or a bit too intimate to chat about in public.  Some things that, admittedly, make my eyes roll back into my head.  Others are okay.  For example, a woman’s magazine is where you’d find a list of the 10 best chick lit books, or the 10 best self-help books or maybe even the 10 best fiction books.  War books?  Ummm, no.

In case you care, the best war books are things like Kurt Vonnegut’s Slaughterhouse Five - a book I never really thought was that great - some Hemingway classics and others.  You won’t be surprised to hear that there’s not a romance or comedy in the group.

3 Responses to “Further Proof Men Are Different From Women”

  1. Karen Scott Says:

    You’re right Helen, not surprised at all..Men!

  2. Ann Wesley Hardin Says:

    Interesting, Helen. But strangely enough, I eat up war books.

    Seriously.

    I could tell you what I thought were the best war books ever written. I read them voraciously.

    I think it’s because I liken war to motherhood. Your sensibilities get distilled. Your days consist of monitoring bowel movements and food intake and the penny-on-the-floor that lodges in the throat like a bullet.

    If your “troops” are alive at the end of the day (like Roseanne said)you’ve done your job.

    That being said, I would recommend:

    Dispatches - Michael Herr.

    All’s Quiet on the Western Front - Erich Maria Remarque.

    And:

    In Country - Bobbie Ann Mason.

    We, as women and mothers, share more with men at war than we realize.

    Just my take on it.

    Thanks for a fascinating topic! ~Ann

  3. Candy Says:

    I’ve mentioned these books over and over on my blog but Pat Barker’s WWI trilogy?

    Friggin’ AMAZING.

    Regeneration, The Eye in the Door, The Ghost Road.

    I don’t actively seek out books dealing with war, but I don’t shy away from them, either. I have Slaughterhouse Five, All Quiet on the Western Front and another war book by some french bloke (Sebastien… something?) on my TBR shelves.

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