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	<title>Comments on: Someone Likes Me</title>
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	<description>SEXY, SASSY, SMART ROMANTIC FICTION</description>
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		<title>By: Sasha</title>
		<link>http://helenkaydimon.com/blog/2006/02/someone-likes-me/#comment-1511</link>
		<dc:creator>Sasha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Feb 2006 07:19:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congrats on the wonderful review!!!  (I'm not surprised though! )*grin*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats on the wonderful review!!!  (I&#8217;m not surprised though! )*grin*</p>
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		<title>By: Monica</title>
		<link>http://helenkaydimon.com/blog/2006/02/someone-likes-me/#comment-1508</link>
		<dc:creator>Monica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Feb 2006 13:35:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Helen, I had a anxiety attack and put my blog on registration only.  It's now my personal blog!  I'm not all that interesting.   We got a new kitten, for instance.  Named it Sugar.  I finally got it to stop lying on my keyboard.  So it's curled up in between my keyboard and monitor.  When it gets bigger, this will be a difficulty.  

I'll manually sign you up or anybody else who asks.  The Wordpress registration process in onerous.   

I was expecting about ten folks max and I could riff and rage all I want about cramps and men and deadlines and editors and laundry.  

But my editor prompty signed up, no, let's make that my publisher. . .  and there's way more people than ten--half whom I don't have a clue about.  

I generally expect folks to hate my books too, so I can be pleasantly surprised when they don't.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Helen, I had a anxiety attack and put my blog on registration only.  It&#8217;s now my personal blog!  I&#8217;m not all that interesting.   We got a new kitten, for instance.  Named it Sugar.  I finally got it to stop lying on my keyboard.  So it&#8217;s curled up in between my keyboard and monitor.  When it gets bigger, this will be a difficulty.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;ll manually sign you up or anybody else who asks.  The Wordpress registration process in onerous.   </p>
<p>I was expecting about ten folks max and I could riff and rage all I want about cramps and men and deadlines and editors and laundry.  </p>
<p>But my editor prompty signed up, no, let&#8217;s make that my publisher. . .  and there&#8217;s way more people than ten&#8211;half whom I don&#8217;t have a clue about.  </p>
<p>I generally expect folks to hate my books too, so I can be pleasantly surprised when they don&#8217;t.</p>
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		<title>By: Jordan</title>
		<link>http://helenkaydimon.com/blog/2006/02/someone-likes-me/#comment-1507</link>
		<dc:creator>Jordan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Feb 2006 04:17:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congrats on the review.</description>
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		<title>By: Trista Bane</title>
		<link>http://helenkaydimon.com/blog/2006/02/someone-likes-me/#comment-1506</link>
		<dc:creator>Trista Bane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Feb 2006 00:50:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great review!  It has me intrigued.  I'm going to go check this one out!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great review!  It has me intrigued.  I&#8217;m going to go check this one out!</p>
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		<title>By: HelenKay</title>
		<link>http://helenkaydimon.com/blog/2006/02/someone-likes-me/#comment-1504</link>
		<dc:creator>HelenKay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2006 16:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Monica Dearest - what's going on with your blog???  My link now leads to your sign-in screen.  I remember reading about getting a password, but I didn't think that meant...well, it's obvious I didn't know exactly what that meant.  Can't function without a daily dose of Monica.  Give me the secret decoder ring and handshake, or tell me where I can find it/them.

As to bad reviews and comments...we hate those people.  No, no, no, I don't mean that.  I have two theories on this.  First, I go into this writing career assuming everyone will hate my stuff. Very glass-is-half-empty, I know.  That's not my usual mindset, but it's one I adopted to get through the submission process.  Yeah, I will be disappointed because I view this as a career and want everyone to love my work, but I know there will be people who don't like it and they are likely to be the most vocal.  Guess it's the divorce lawyer in me.  You should hear the crap I hear everyday - not always the prettiest side of people.  

Second, since I review books, I have some idea of the process that goes into a review.  I HATE it when I don't like a book.  I get surly and nasty because I want to be wowed or entertained or feel something every single time I pick up a book.  That's part of the reason I am fine buying hardcovers and trade and any other expensive book version publishers come up with - because I go in thinking I will love 'em and won't care about the cost.   I don't enjoy - not even a little - saying I thought something wasn't good.  I've decided that everyone feels that way (part of me - okay, most of me - knows this isn't true).  But, if I go in with the idea that anyone who writes bad stuff about my book feels bad doing it, it feels a bit less personal.  The latter would be the glass-is-half-full part of my personality.

I have a husband and cp who will be forced to listen to my private tirades...and, yes, I have a voodoo doll.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monica Dearest - what&#8217;s going on with your blog???  My link now leads to your sign-in screen.  I remember reading about getting a password, but I didn&#8217;t think that meant&#8230;well, it&#8217;s obvious I didn&#8217;t know exactly what that meant.  Can&#8217;t function without a daily dose of Monica.  Give me the secret decoder ring and handshake, or tell me where I can find it/them.</p>
<p>As to bad reviews and comments&#8230;we hate those people.  No, no, no, I don&#8217;t mean that.  I have two theories on this.  First, I go into this writing career assuming everyone will hate my stuff. Very glass-is-half-empty, I know.  That&#8217;s not my usual mindset, but it&#8217;s one I adopted to get through the submission process.  Yeah, I will be disappointed because I view this as a career and want everyone to love my work, but I know there will be people who don&#8217;t like it and they are likely to be the most vocal.  Guess it&#8217;s the divorce lawyer in me.  You should hear the crap I hear everyday - not always the prettiest side of people.  </p>
<p>Second, since I review books, I have some idea of the process that goes into a review.  I HATE it when I don&#8217;t like a book.  I get surly and nasty because I want to be wowed or entertained or feel something every single time I pick up a book.  That&#8217;s part of the reason I am fine buying hardcovers and trade and any other expensive book version publishers come up with - because I go in thinking I will love &#8216;em and won&#8217;t care about the cost.   I don&#8217;t enjoy - not even a little - saying I thought something wasn&#8217;t good.  I&#8217;ve decided that everyone feels that way (part of me - okay, most of me - knows this isn&#8217;t true).  But, if I go in with the idea that anyone who writes bad stuff about my book feels bad doing it, it feels a bit less personal.  The latter would be the glass-is-half-full part of my personality.</p>
<p>I have a husband and cp who will be forced to listen to my private tirades&#8230;and, yes, I have a voodoo doll.</p>
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		<title>By: Nicole</title>
		<link>http://helenkaydimon.com/blog/2006/02/someone-likes-me/#comment-1503</link>
		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2006 15:20:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Monica, how bought a voodoo doll? Just think of all the nasty things you could imagine!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monica, how bought a voodoo doll? Just think of all the nasty things you could imagine!</p>
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		<title>By: Monica</title>
		<link>http://helenkaydimon.com/blog/2006/02/someone-likes-me/#comment-1502</link>
		<dc:creator>Monica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2006 13:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congrats!  But wait until you see how much you hate that other type.   So what are your suggestions of how authors can remain objective short of a handy calming aid?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congrats!  But wait until you see how much you hate that other type.   So what are your suggestions of how authors can remain objective short of a handy calming aid?</p>
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